tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6366284112273564692024-02-19T19:43:41.896-05:00Community Christian ChurchWe are dreaming God's dreams and living into His future at Community Christian Church.
We are connecting Real People to the Real God for Real Change.Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.comBlogger60125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-18301661943087864382010-02-15T12:04:00.003-05:002010-02-15T13:29:57.146-05:00A Shared Longing!I met a lady yesterday who has been coming to CCC less than two months. She shared how she found us and how much the church means to her. Then she said: "these last few weeks have been tough [with the church not meeting]. It was a strange feeling. It is the first time in my life I can remember really missing [longing to attend] church."<br /><br />There was something special about our worship yesterday. The band was great. The message was incredible, as usual :-). The potluck was awesome. But there was an energy that none of those things could account for; an energy comes from a shared longing to be together. Maybe that feeling caught you a little by surprise too.<br /><br />It is the feeling of a husband who sees his wife of 30 years like it was their first date and realizes, in that instant, she still takes his breath away. Sometimes the day-to-day challenges of being married can blind our eyes to some incredible blessings at are right in front of us every day.<br /><br />Community is a unique place. There is something special that happens when we gather. We are blessed to be part of a spiritual family that enriches our lives. The irony is that sometimes newcomers are quicker to sense it than we are. It shouldn't take a band to come in and experience our worship for the first time to say: "This is a GREAT church" or a newcomer's story to alert us to the blessings that abound among us. We shouldn't have to be snowbound for three weeks to realize what we mean to each other...but it doesn't hurt. I'm grateful for God's reminders.Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-83584785103167297892009-04-08T10:17:00.002-04:002009-04-09T13:44:50.971-04:00Easter Impact!Easter is THIS Sunday. It hardly seems possible. We have been planning for months and the time has finally arrived. We begin a new message series this weekend called "Desperate Households." The message for this Sunday is "Desperate for Hope." Every human being longs for something more and seeks hope that the struggles they face can ultimately be overcome. This Sunday will be a day filled with hope for all of our families. Easter is a day of hope. Here is how Eugene Peterson paraphrased some of Paul's profound words in 1 Corinthians 15:<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">If there is no resurrection, there's no living Christ. And fact it - if there's no resurrection for Christ, everything we've told you is smoke and mirrors... If corpses can't be raised, then Christ wasn't, because he was indeed dead. And if Christ wasn't raised, then all you're doing is wandering about in the dark, as lost as ever. It's even worse for those who died hoping in Christ and resurrection, because they are already in their graves. If all we get out of Christ is a little inspiration for a few short years, we're a pretty sorry lot. But the truth is that Christ has been raised up, the first in a long legacy of those who are going to leave the cemeteries.</span><br /><br />But God doesn't just resurrect bodies, he resurrects lives. He resurrects relationships. He resurrects families. The power of Easter is available for us NOW. We are Easter people. We are people with a living hope. That hope will be the foundation of our experience this Sunday at our 9:00 and 11:00 gatherings. We expect our campus to be buzzing with hundreds of people, some coming for the very first time.<br /><br />Please come this Sunday with the intent of reaching out to new people. Even if the service really rings a bell for them (and we pray that it will), the most important impression will be the one you make. The most important word will be the one that you speak. Please continue to pray for "divine opportunities" to invite family and friends that are far from God. Eighty-two percent of those who are invited to church by someone they already know will say yes. Your gracious words could be catalytic in changing someone's life now and forever. I can hardly wait to see what God is going to do as we gather in His name to celebrate the resurrection of our Savior.<br /><br />"He is risen. He is risen, indeed!"<br /><br />BrentBrenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-46923774555125956372009-03-30T11:03:00.003-04:002009-03-30T11:38:14.799-04:00Still Trying to Take It In!<span style="font-weight: bold;">Yesterday was a great day. </span>I'm still trying to take it all in. We launched our second worship gathering - not really knowing what to expect - and God blew us away AGAIN.<br /><br />We had <span style="font-weight: bold;">230</span> people worship with us Sunday. There were lots of new faces. Both services were nearly identical in adult attendance (there were 15 more people at 11:00 than at 9:00).<br /><br />Sean hit it out of the park with the message and the praise team did a great job at both services.<br /><br />I know that two gatherings means more work - you are all living proof of that. But it also provides more opportunities for us to "connect real people to the real God for real change." Thanks for all you are doing...Praise God for what He has done!<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">I'll be praying over those invite cards</span> you took home yesterday. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Easter is only two weeks away.</span> These are desperate times - please pass those cards on to those you know who are "<span style="font-style: italic;">Desperate for Hope</span>."<br /><br />This Sunday I'll wrap up our "<span style="font-style: italic;">Famous Last Words</span>" series with Jesus' ultimate expression of "<span style="font-weight: bold;">FAITH</span>". I hope to see you there. Bring a friend. It's not that hard...simply invite.Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-23801509551342904552009-03-16T08:10:00.003-04:002009-03-16T09:01:49.934-04:00Ramblings From An Incredible Weekend!I literally could not sleep last night with images of the weekend still bouncing around in my head.<br />Friday was Prayerfest. Our members came and made their way through six stations praying for every aspect of our church's life and ministry. Every time that we have chosen to pray, really pray, God has responded.<br /><br />We had a huge turnout for our workday on Saturday. At one point I counted 15 people painting together in the Heartland room. That doesn't include those working in the Pulse space, offices, auditorium and outside. A number of really cool upgrades are happening.<br /><br />We closed the day with a great crowd of regulars and newcomers for our Pizza Throwdown. We had one new family show up @ Community for the first time for that event. She even brought a dessert to enter in the competition - and she placed third out of sixteen entries. They were back Sunday morning and attended our LIFE Group last night. They found us through our website... and were drawn by our Heart 4 the Homeless and Adopted in Him ministries. While they were on our website they saw pictures of people they already knew... and couldn't wait till Sunday to join us.<br /><br />Speaking of Sunday morning - are you kidding me!!!! At one point one of our ushers was trying to find seats together for a family of three...and there weren't any. Our second service is coming right on time. Chris and the team led us in an awesome time of worship and God moved in powerful ways. Remember to pray for Bob, who has been far from God for years, and came home yesterday after being reminded of God's forgiving heart. Pray for the Smiths, who a mourning the loss of a young family member who was murdered last week while working for the Peace Corp in Africa. As we stop just "going to church" and start "being the church" we will be in over our heads in "real-life" issues in people's lives. But this is exactly where God wants us to be.<br /><br />By all accounts, this was a great weekend for our congregation. Our children's ministries and youth ministries are still buzzing about everthing that transpired. The meeting for training those to who are greeting our newcomers was packed yesterday afternoon and volunteer roles are filling fast.<br /><br />I just want to close by saying thanks to those who who are working so hard and offering countless hours and resources to God's work here at Community. I feel blessed to be serving Jesus alongside you. Have a great week.Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-4950715442425708102009-03-06T07:53:00.006-05:002009-03-06T08:46:25.258-05:00What Can I Do To Help?I know many of you believe that adding the second service is critical to the growth of our ministry at Community. It is an exciting, somewhat intimidating, next step on our journey. So, the question arises, <span style="font-weight: bold;">what are some simple things each of us can do</span> to help ensure adding this second worship gathering is successful. I'll to give you a short list, then elaborate more in the coming weeks. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Our launch is currently 23 days away.</span> Here goes...<br /><ol><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">If you don't have kids in Heartland, consider attending the 9:00 AM service.</span> Heartland will only be offered at the11:00 AM worship gathering. It likely will not be difficult for us to fill the 11:00 gathering again. Yet, our goal is to have at least half of the chairs full during <span style="font-style: italic;">each </span>worship time. Studies say the likelihood of success is increased dramatically if we can fill 50% of the seats. It will be easy to choose a service for convenience - or getting a little extra sleep. We're asking you to make you choice based on God's mission here.<br /></li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">Please plan on attending one worship time and serving during the other.</span> This is a great opportunity to be able to attend the first worship time <span style="font-style: italic;">and </span>serve in Heartland during the second. A lot of servants here are already pulling double duty - and have been for a while. We can definitely use your help. We will need growing numbers of volunteers to serve the folks God is bringing our way. There will be a number of service opportunities during each service. Nursery workers will be needed during both services. If kids aren't your thing, consider serving as a greeter, traffic/parking assistant, chair mover, etc. or just mingle in the foyer between services intentionally greeting newcomers.</li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">Invite, Invite, Invite</span>. This is probably the most intimidating, yet <span style="font-style: italic;">most critical</span> thing any of us can do. If we just split the people we currently have, it won't be good. But, if we commit to making room - and inviting others to fill it again - more people will have an opportunity to connect with God and His people. To help as you offer invitations, this Sunday we will be providing attractive <span style="font-style: italic;">Invite Cards </span><span>for the launch of our Second Worship Gathering</span>. Next week we will have Invite Cards <span style="font-style: italic;">for our Easter series</span>. We hope you'll use them to Simply Invite...</li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">Attend our Work Day on March 14th.</span> Come and get your hands dirty. We have a ton of work to complete before our move to a second service and in our prep for Easter. We can really use your help from 8:00 to 3:00. It's a great way to help the church and work up an appetite for the Pizza Throwdown.</li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">Provide a financial gift to assist in upgrading our facilities. </span>I even hate to mention this because, in difficult economic times, <span style="font-style: italic;">you continue to be incredibly generous</span>. Yet, the truth is, the upgrades to our children's and youth spaces and our parking lot will cost some extra money. What we are able to do will depend on the funds available. So, if God has blessed you with some extra funds, via a tax refund, saving, etc. and you can supply some help <span style="font-style: italic;">in addition to your tithe</span>, we will put it to use creating inviting spaces on our campus. Just place any gift in the offering plate on Sunday. Please do whatever you feel God is leading you to do.<br /></li></ol>Please pray with your family about how you will contribute to the success of our second worship time. Adding this worship will provide you options. I pray God will lead you to not simply to enjoy these options yourself - but will guide you to seize this kingdom opportunity to reach and serve others who are far from God. I'm excited to see what God will do with our offering...Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-25994042057169546422009-03-02T08:56:00.004-05:002009-03-02T10:19:41.915-05:00Why Will Our Two Worship Gatherings Be Exactly The Same!Reason 1:<br />The primary reason our additional worship will be identical to our current one is that we believe God is blessing what we are currently doing. Most of our guests seem to love our worship and it is meaningful to nearly all regular attenders. It other words, what we are currently doing is becoming <span style="font-style: italic;">increasingly </span>relevant to our surrounding culture.<br /><br />Here's what I believe: God expects us to make the message of Jesus relevant to the culture we engage in Salisbury, MD in 2009. He will hold us accountable for doing this. Most churches are dying because they have refused to embrace this principle. Many have chosen to address the 60's, 70's or 80's head-on, and are suffering the consequences. Our message (Jesus) never changes. The modes and methods of communicating Him must adapt to become relevant to the culture in which we live.<br /><br />I have heard a couple of people express a desire to shape our additional service to be more "traditional." This would mean more hymns and a service more like what they had experienced growing up, or at some point in their past. This would make some of us who have been in church most of our lives more comfortable and the worship time more enjoyable.<br /><br />Here are my issues with proposal: (1) longing to experience something from the past is usually what draws people's attention away from what God is trying to do with them in the present; (2) traditional worship, by its very nature, seeks to engage the past rather than the culture we presently live in; and (3) our leaders are striving to be mission-driven and not member-driven. In other words, we will always ask, "What will help us fulfill the mission Jesus has given us" rather than "I wonder what our members would like us to do" or "what would make our members most comfortable." I think beginning a more traditional worship experience would be a decision to make a subset of our members happy, rather than a decision based on the mission of Jesus. Let me say this though: I think hymns, which are upgraded to a contemporary style have the potential to be very relevant. Doing this provides the double blessing of being both relevant and a connection to our Christian heritage. You'll notice we have begun to do this occasionally in our worship.<br /><br />Reason 2.<br />I think a decision to segregate our church members based on the style of worship music they prefer, rather than unite them around the mission of Jesus has incredible potential to split the congregation. Worship preferences have split more congregations than any other issue in history. It is a historical fact that when church members begin to focus on their own preferences and petty desires the results have been catastrophic. When this happens, my group becomes those who have the same preferences I do. Everyone else is an outsider.<br /><br />So, we have chosen to focus on Christ's mission in making our decisions. Many will join us as we pursue this mission, others may choose to go to a church where they are more comfortable. All we can do is to do our best to be faithful to "complete the work that God has given us to do" (John 17:4).<br /><br />There would be only one reason our leaders would consider changing the style of our worship for an additional worship gathering: to create a new worship environment targeted specifically toward a group of people who are far from God. This might mean a change of location (rented space outside our facility) or a change of style (i.e., edgier to reach a younger generation) but I promise our decision would be based on God's mission.<br /><br />May God bless as follow His leading and continue His work...Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-33069478052180646342009-02-27T11:22:00.003-05:002009-02-27T11:46:58.081-05:00With A Second Service Aren't We Just Splitting the Church?In some ways it will feel like it. There will be likely be fewer people attending the worship gathering you are part of, at least initially. It will feel different. There will be people you know that you will see less often, if they choose to attend at a different time. There will be some discomfort in all of us the first few weeks. There will likely be some "wilderness" time when we will feel like things were better back in Egypt (Numbers 14:3) and the only "rational" response would be to go back there.<br /><br />But, like the Israelites, we must understand that the future God has for us will not be found in our rear-view mirror. And, His future, will require us to make sacrifices and make room. It is "making room" that is the key. Not only must we intentionally "make room" for newcomers; we must also allow God to use us to "fill it up" again. God's passion is to have two (then ten) of our worship spaces filled with people who are connecting with Him and having their lives changed by the encounter. He wants people you do life with, live next to, meet on the street, work in the cubicle beside, care about - to meet Him through your invitation. Rather than fret about what we might lose, can we instead rejoice in what they might gain - if we make room?<br /><br />If we just divide up the attenders we already have...we lose. But if we can catch a vision of God's love for those who are far from Him and commit to partner with Him in brining them home - our lives - and our church - will never be the same.<br /><br />Simply Invite.Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-76455086418993160032009-02-26T11:36:00.003-05:002009-02-26T11:42:24.901-05:00A Couple of Additional Thoughts1. "Community" must never become more important to the church than reaching newcomers or those far from God.<br /><br />2. Isn't it wonderful that God is blessing our church with new people when 85% of the congregations is the United States are either plateaued or in decline?<br /><br />I just posted a pretty disturbing article on my blog regarding trends in church attendance. You can get there by following this link:<br /><br /><h2 class="first"><a href="http://brentbrady.com" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to By 2050, Only 10% of Americans will be in church on a given sunday…">By 2050, Only 10% of Americans will be in church on a given sunday…</a></h2>Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-63960063120584431052009-02-26T11:21:00.001-05:002009-02-26T11:21:58.868-05:00Losin' that Lovin' FeelingAsk any group of congregational leaders what the strength of their congregation is, 95% of the time they will say “friendliness.”<span style=""> </span>This holds true <span style="font-style: italic;">regardless of a church’s size</span>. Ask about their number one fear when starting a second service, most will say: we're afraid we'll "lose that lovin' feeling." Well, if they were really cool that's what they'd say. Yet, even as they say that, it is difficult to pin down what they mean.<br /><br />Sociologist tell us that a human being can only maintain a strong relationship with 40-50 people. We can recognize the faces of more people than that, but when it comes to knowing their names, kids names, pets names. 40 or 50 is about all we can handle. So, if we target our church size to the number of people we can have really close ties with, our churches would never grow above 50 people. But that's not ususally how it works.<br /><br />I've been in congregations of less than 50 people that were cold as ice. And I've been in congregations with thousands of members that felt like a huge extended family. Friendliness and family feelings have little to do with size. This church was welcoming and relationally warm at 100 and we are welcoming and relationally warm at 200. Even in the midst of new faces, names we can't remember, an ever-increasing crowd, it still feels like family. Newcomers sense it immediately. It is a part of our DNA that we must never lose; whether we are 300 or 3000. It is part of who we are and what God has created us to do best.<br /><br />We won't lose "it" by going to two services. We may have to be more intentinal about connecting with folks who are attending worship at a different time. Make use of the combined connecting time between the services. Look for opportunities to be together outside of Sunday morning. Serve together during the week.<br /><br />The truth is the larger we grow, the more important our LIFE Groups will become. It is there we will find a large part of our 40 or 50. We grow our strongest relationships there as we "do life together."<br /><br />One of the biggest questions growing families faces is "will we make room." It is true in our physical families when Mom and Dad bring home a new brother or sister. It is true in our spiritual family when God "adds to our number" (Acts 2:47). Our willingness to make room doesn't make us any less of a family - it only enlarges the number touched by "that lovin' feeling."Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-39680512906074126922009-02-25T11:31:00.004-05:002009-02-25T12:59:24.516-05:00What Will Adding A Second Worship Time Do For Us?<span style="font-weight: bold;">1. It will help us stay on mission.</span><br />God is not finished with us yet. We haven't arrived. It's not time for us to coast into retirement or ride off into the sunset. We don't get an extended period of "me-time." God still has an urgent mission for us. We have not completed it. In many ways it feels like we are just getting started. Adding a second worship service is a critical next step toward completing the work God has given us to do.<br /><br />The goal of our ministry is to <span style="font-style: italic;">connect real people to the real God for real change</span>. It is easy to see God at work among us. When God is at work He attracts a crowd. Jesus wasn't put-off by that. He continually invited <span style="font-style: italic;">any </span>and <span style="font-style: italic;">all </span>to come. That was <span style="font-style: italic;">His</span> invitation, and it must be <span style="font-style: italic;">ours</span>. Yes, crowds cause chaos. There are always adjustments. But every crowd is filled with unique individuals that Jesus gave His life for. He would have us welcome each one. Here's the issue: studies say that when our worship space is over-crowded, 70%-80% full, new people perceive their is no room for them. It would be a tragedy if even one newcomer felt unwelcome because we didn't love them enough to make room.<br /><br />If there are no new faces, adding a second service doesn't make much sense. Just splitting up our existing crew would be no fun for anybody. The excitement comes as God, through you, brings new families, we extends His welcome and see their lives changed. Remember, the church doesn't exist for us - <span style="font-style: italic;">we are the church</span> and we exist to connect people to God through Jesus Christ. This second service will help keep God's mission first.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">2. It will bless our volunteers.</span><br />I'm not sure when Melissa Dasher attended adult worship last. Likely over a year ago. No, she hasn't lost her faith - but has chosen to put it into action. You see, she and her Heartland volunteers have made a huge sacrifice. They have bailed on the blessing of attending adult worship, in order to serve our kids and help them connect with God. One of the most exciting prospects of a new service is that volunteers will be able to experience our worship and serve others on the same Sunday morning. More people are already volunteering to work in Heartland, because they know they won't have to sacrifice worshiping with their church family.<br /><br />Our second service is an intentional effort to make our worship available to more and more people. I pray that you will warmly welcome...and simply invite.Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-91610495144917908632009-02-24T14:23:00.002-05:002009-02-24T14:24:44.727-05:00Second ServiceIt is now officially - 1 month, 4 days, 18 hours, 37 minutes and 30 seconds till the launch of our new worship service.Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-5226290048946087682009-02-24T13:35:00.003-05:002009-02-24T14:00:18.517-05:00Upgraded Spaces!!!!I’m just saying…I need to find some people to work with who won’t frivolously toy with my emotions. Jim Waldo came into my office this morning with a concerned look on his face. He sat down and said: “we got an alert from the bank this morning.” My countenance fell and I said something like “are you kidding me.” Every other time Jim and I have had conversations start that way, it has not been good news. He let me stew a while and then said: “that’s how I felt when I first saw the email…then I remembered I had set the account to send me an alert when our balance went over a specified threshold, so I could set some funds aside for Mission and Building Maintenance.” If he wasn’t a Marine I probably would have hurled myself across the desk and grabbed him around his not-so-scrawny neck. The blessing is that, while many, many churches are struggling financially in these difficult economic times, we continue to grow healthier with each passing week. We are not out-of-the-woods yet, and we're definitely not over-funded - but thanks to better management and your sacrifices - things are improving. Thank you for your partnership in the work God is doing here.<br /><br />Speaking of what God is doing… let me give you a heads-up on some of the plans we have in place for the weeks leading up to Easter.<br /><br />As you know, our growth has caused some space issues for our ministries. More debt is not in our future, so we have to begin to utilize the space we already have as creatively as possible. In the coming weeks there will be a few renovations and space reallocations happening in our church.<br /><br />First, we are going to frame in two new offices on the north end of the Chestnut Room. My office will move into one of those new spaces. This move will have our <span style="font-style: italic;">staff offices located together</span>. This can be done inexpensively utilizing the people and resources we already have in place. The plan is to complete this project <span style="font-style: italic;">before </span>our workday on March 14th.<br /><br />Second, the nursery will be relocated to my current office. This will allow all of our childrens ministry spac to be self-contained. This will provide greater security and a better connection between different aspects of our childrens ministry.<br /><br />Third, the Chestnut Room will be decorated to be a more kid-friendly space for Heartland and utilized less as a multi-purpose room. It seems wrong to deprive our kids of a fun and exciting space because we might have two wedding receptions in that room each year. We chose to make that room an investment in our children.<br /><br />Fourth, the Fellowship Hall will decorated and dedicated to our teens. We are going to upgrade the technology and create a welcoming space relevant to our teens and their friends to gather and learn about God.<br /><br />Fifth, the our large current nursery will be set aside as a classroom and meeting space for adults. Any adult gatherings too large for that room will use our multi-purpose auditorium.<br /><br />Sixth, we plan to make short-term improvements to our parking area.<br /><br />Tons of work ahead, but without a ton of expense. These improvements will locate our office, student, and adult spaces in different sections of the building – allowing us to better utilize the space God has already provided.<br /><br />If you would like to help with the upgrades in any of these areas, please contact the church office (410.742.5601) or the ministry leader overseeing the project. We really need everybody to pitch on our Work Day, March 14th. These are our plans, our prayer is to have them completed before Easter. Please jump in.<br /><br />New Office Spaces Thom Keeton bluekeeton@comcast.net<br />Children’s Ministry Melissa Dasher bizemomx5@comcast.net<br />Youth Ministry Ken Dasher daddash@netzero.net<br />Adult Spaces Church Office churchoffice@heart4community.org<br />Parking Lot Upgrades Dave Pfingst pfinky29@hotmail.comBrenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-56945873534066345092009-02-02T10:21:00.002-05:002009-02-02T10:23:54.134-05:00Growing Pains, Growing Plans<p class="MsoNormal"><span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;" >Last Monday morning the peacefulness of my first cup of coffee was shattered as I opened my email program. A<span style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);">s I scanned the subject lines of the incoming email, there it was. You know the kind. All you have to do is look at the subject line and you just want to go back to bed and start over. The subject line read “Concern in the Camp.” I was pretty sure the camp in question had nothing to do with holding hands around a campfire and singing <i><span style="font-style: italic;">Kum By Ya</span></i>! The email was from one of our elders (there’s some good news). It was not only addressed to me but to all the other elders and to Sean. My first thought was “Ok, what did Sean do now!” Not really. My first thought was #%*@&! They say confession is good for the soul. Yes, you still need to pray for me. I clicked on the email and this is what confronted me...<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:130%;"><i><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Gentlemen,<o:p></o:p></span></span></i></span></p> <p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:130%;"><i><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="font-style: italic;">I thought it best to get this info out ASAP. There was a disruption of sorts yesterday morning at the morning worship time. It appears that when Ingrid & I entered the corporate worship area to take our seats, to our surprise, we could not. Why you ask? Because someone we didn't even know had taken ours. Preposterous I say! On top of that, another CCC family of 5 had to relocate to other seating because of the very same thing. <o:p></o:p></span></span></i></span></p> <p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:130%;"><i><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="font-style: italic;">LOL...Praise GOD, that there is "Change" in the wind & this "Change" isn't coming from President O. Thank you Brent & Sean, for the on going face-lift @CCC.<o:p></o:p></span></span></i></span></p> <p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:130%;"><i><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="font-style: italic;">ALL4HIM,<o:p></o:p></span></span></i></span></p> <p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:130%;"><i><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="font-style: italic;">clc<o:p></o:p></span></span></i></span></p> <p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"><span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;" >Let me say first that this type of email is just wrong. I’m old and my heart is not as strong as it used to be. Second, you and I both know that Charlie is right. Quite a few folks have seen unfamiliar faces in their sacred spaces recently. And it seems like every Sunday there are more of them than the Sunday before. The only seats available are the ones on the very front row (and the ones next to Ken).<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"><span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;" >Here’s the issue, we are running out of space. It’s not my fault. You’ve heard my preaching. If you have to blame someone, blame God. He is drawing them. Now that we have assigned blame sufficiently, let’s talk about what to do. (Praying that God would stop sending new people is not an option! Don’t even think about it).<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"><span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;" >In the short-term, I’d like to ask our regulars to choose seats further toward the front. Yes, I said it. And furthermore, someone is going to have to sit <i><span style="font-style: italic;">on the front row</span></i> (i.e., in the spray zone) for this to really do any good. B.Y.O.U. (<i><span style="font-style: italic;">Bring Your Own Umbrella).</span></i> This will ensure our guests don’t have to make the “walk of shame” to the front row after the service has already begun.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"><span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;" >Our longer term plan, as I mentioned on Vision Sunday, is to begin a second worship service. Our plan is to make the transition on March 29<sup>th</sup>. I hope we can wait that long. Why the 29<sup>th</sup>. That will give us a couple of weeks to work the kinks out before Easter. The first service will begin @ 9:00 AM the second @ 10:45 AM. There will be a half-hour transition/fellowship time in between. As plans stand right now, Heartland will be offered at the second service only and the first service will have more of a family feel. I’ll be sending out information over the next several weeks to help prepare all of us for this transition. Yet, we believe strongly that God is calling to make <u>more seats available at optimum times</u>, so more and more people can connect with God and experience real change through our ministry at <i><span style="font-style: italic;">Community</span></i>. The elders and I welcome your feedback.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"><span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;" >Yes, this is <i><span style="font-style: italic;">another</span></i> change. Yet, it is a change that moves us more deeply into the mission God has for us. Besides, you might even get your old seat back. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"><span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;" >I’m glad to be on this journey with you. I pray that you will <i><span style="font-style: italic;">continue</span></i> <i><span style="font-style: italic;">investing</span></i> in the lives of those who don’t know Jesus and <i><span style="font-style: italic;">inviting</span></i> them to experience God’s grace that flows in this place. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);" class="MsoNormal"><span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;" >Grace and Peace,<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style=";font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;color:black;" ><span style=";font-size:12;color:black;" ><span style="color: rgb(204, 204, 204);font-size:130%;" >Brent</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-31613750059927117032008-12-15T09:22:00.000-05:002008-12-15T09:24:01.649-05:00Heartland Kids Making A Difference!From A News Blog in Salisbury, MD...<br /><br /><h2 class="date-header">Sunday, December 14, 2008</h2> <div class="post hentry"> <a name="6998002413275589446"></a> <h3 class="post-title entry-title"> <a href="http://sbynews.blogspot.com/2008/12/ringing-bell-for-salvation-army-has-its.html">Ringing The Bell For The Salvation Army Has Its Rewards</a> </h3> <div class="post-body entry-content"> <p><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVsnXxpXdrezeHs9VzP1jOAuLzbYQNue0t0n6gpISKp7BRcf9tIH1RNS1cEhJ9YFGroO9EfQeSEjd5gtF6qi76movJ43hwsGAhUifsWP3eslgtk0O-3Ys1fjJVPFcjGD6kv8LGWDuPJ-0/s1600-h/12-13-08+018.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 328px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVsnXxpXdrezeHs9VzP1jOAuLzbYQNue0t0n6gpISKp7BRcf9tIH1RNS1cEhJ9YFGroO9EfQeSEjd5gtF6qi76movJ43hwsGAhUifsWP3eslgtk0O-3Ys1fjJVPFcjGD6kv8LGWDuPJ-0/s400/12-13-08+018.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5279369609306288354" border="0" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJgyXJhB0BsBkJt0ZoXjmF3-pkXtk7AQ0pOhvQXMTA_hp9XKTbkD7hgHodbRlg2VUbkIPzHcm6M3xv1D2WHMSh2Ndmg0SpsD0at1RhAjjAfa3HJjBnnc9DhgQv7_x84lRaNHP3jRRjwD4/s1600-h/12-13-08+019.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 290px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJgyXJhB0BsBkJt0ZoXjmF3-pkXtk7AQ0pOhvQXMTA_hp9XKTbkD7hgHodbRlg2VUbkIPzHcm6M3xv1D2WHMSh2Ndmg0SpsD0at1RhAjjAfa3HJjBnnc9DhgQv7_x84lRaNHP3jRRjwD4/s400/12-13-08+019.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5279369604102387794" border="0" /></a><br />The other day I was standing in front of the North WalMart ringing the bell and handing out Candy Canes to all the young children.<br /><br />All of a sudden I leaned over to hand one of the children a Candy Cane and the child said, I have something for you Sir. He then proceeded to thank me for what I was doing and handed me the package above. On one side was a small Snickers Bar taped to a small piece of paper. When I turned it over I got the added bonus of a message thanking ME for serving.<br /><br />I'm telling you Folks, there aren't that many slots left open and you should jump on board and take one of the most rewarding hours, couple of hours, whatever you like. If you'd like to help out cal the Salvation Army at 410-749-7771 ext. 100 or me at 410-430-5349. You can also e-mail me at alberobutzo@wmconnect.com and let me know which open slot you'd like to take and I'll take it from there.<br /><br />To the young man who gave me this Snickers Bar, God Bless You. The memory will last me a lifetime.</p> </div> <div class="post-footer"> <div class="post-footer-line post-footer-line-1"><span class="post-author vcard"> Posted by <span class="fn">joealbero</span> </span> <span class="post-timestamp"> at <a class="timestamp-link" href="http://sbynews.blogspot.com/2008/12/ringing-bell-for-salvation-army-has-its.html" rel="bookmark" title="permanent link"><abbr class="published" title="2008-12-14T08:09:00-05:00">8:09 AM</abbr></a> </span> <span class="post-comment-link"> </span> <span class="post-icons"> <span class="item-action"> <a href="email-post.g?blogID=31586983&postID=6998002413275589446" title="Email Post"> <img alt="" class="icon-action" src="img/icon18_email.gif" /> </a> </span> <span class="item-control blog-admin pid-1481226956"> <a href="post-edit.g?blogID=31586983&postID=6998002413275589446" title="Edit Post"> <img alt="" class="icon-action" src="img/icon18_edit_allbkg.gif" height="18" width="18" /> </a> </span> </span> </div> <div class="post-footer-line post-footer-line-2"><span class="post-labels"> </span> </div> </div> </div> <a name="comments"></a> <h4> 6 comments: </h4> <dl id="comments-block"><dt class="comment-author anon-comment-icon" id="c2621915970875397378"> <a name="c2621915970875397378"></a> Anonymous said... </dt><dd class="comment-body"> <p>Community Christian Heartland kids are the AWESOME!!</p> </dd><dd class="comment-footer"> <span class="comment-timestamp"> <a href="http://sbynews.blogspot.com/2008/12/ringing-bell-for-salvation-army-has-its.html?showComment=1229275380000#c2621915970875397378" title="comment permalink"> 12:23 PM </a> <span class="item-control blog-admin pid-793774753"> <a href="delete-comment.g?blogID=31586983&postID=2621915970875397378" title="Delete Comment"> <img src="img/icon_delete13.gif" /> </a> </span> </span> </dd><dt class="comment-author anon-comment-icon" id="c6461497696435841821"> <a name="c6461497696435841821"></a> Anonymous said... </dt><dd class="comment-body"> <p>You're so dramatic and self-serving I'm growing sick</p> </dd><dd class="comment-footer"> <span class="comment-timestamp"> <a href="http://sbynews.blogspot.com/2008/12/ringing-bell-for-salvation-army-has-its.html?showComment=1229283240000#c6461497696435841821" title="comment permalink"> 2:34 PM </a> <span class="item-control blog-admin pid-793774753"> <a href="delete-comment.g?blogID=31586983&postID=6461497696435841821" title="Delete Comment"> <img src="img/icon_delete13.gif" /> </a> </span> </span> </dd><dt class="comment-author anon-comment-icon" id="c1849245134884863139"> <a name="c1849245134884863139"></a> Brenda Spindler said... </dt><dd class="comment-body"> <p>Not sure who the little guy was but that's our church and we are very thankful for our "heartland kids". Thanks Joe for posting this about them!<br />Brenda Spindler</p> </dd><dd class="comment-footer"> <span class="comment-timestamp"> <a href="http://sbynews.blogspot.com/2008/12/ringing-bell-for-salvation-army-has-its.html?showComment=1229283360000#c1849245134884863139" title="comment permalink"> 2:36 PM </a> <span class="item-control blog-admin pid-793774753"> <a href="delete-comment.g?blogID=31586983&postID=1849245134884863139" title="Delete Comment"> <img src="img/icon_delete13.gif" /> </a> </span> </span> </dd><dt class="comment-author anon-comment-icon" id="c7050624236245621523"> <a name="c7050624236245621523"></a> Anonymous said... </dt><dd class="comment-body"> <p>Since I don't drink any longer ringing that bell is a good way to meet and greet some beautiful smiles from some sweeties.<br /><br />The thing that impressed me the most was how many people let their very young kids put the money in the kettle, passing on a tradition of giving in this very blessed holiday season.<br /><br />Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Happy Kwanza and a holiday wish for everyone.<br /><br />Today's news is the best I can remember since I recieved my James Bond double '00 spy kit with the exploding briefcase for Christmas when I was 8 years old : )<br /><br />The so called attorney will now have to deal with a very upset throng of city employees that will be willing to stand in line to have their voices finally heard by an interested electorate. The proverbial Poo River will hit the fan then.<br /><br />Many of these key city employees hold the deepest secrets of the current administration and are more than ready to be able to speak up without retaliation. It's not the city grunt employees that need to worry about their jobs, it will be the multitude of failures among department heads.<br /><br />I persoanlly think PW director Mr. Caldwell and Joel Hamilton of the Zoo deserve a chance to perform their jobs unobstructed and let them cut their own puppet strings and let truth and reality reign.</p> </dd><dd class="comment-footer"> <span class="comment-timestamp"> <a href="http://sbynews.blogspot.com/2008/12/ringing-bell-for-salvation-army-has-its.html?showComment=1229297280000#c7050624236245621523" title="comment permalink"> 6:28 PM </a> <span class="item-control blog-admin pid-793774753"> <a href="delete-comment.g?blogID=31586983&postID=7050624236245621523" title="Delete Comment"> <img src="img/icon_delete13.gif" /> </a> </span> </span> </dd><dt class="comment-author anon-comment-icon" id="c706927187708954230"> <a name="c706927187708954230"></a> <a href="http://www.myspace.com/theofficialmarkkuniepage" rel="nofollow">MK</a> said... </dt><dd class="comment-body"> <p>Joe,, After all yo do,, You deserved that! I am sure you feel very warm and good inside.. I am sure You sir,,deserve that!<br /><br />I am getting ready to take off This Tuesday to do a Christmas Show at the MAC Center. I have done a few times and have taken personal days to volunteer my talent, and the feeling is WONDERFUL! Keep Up The Great Work! MK</p> </dd><dd class="comment-footer"> <span class="comment-timestamp"> <a href="http://sbynews.blogspot.com/2008/12/ringing-bell-for-salvation-army-has-its.html?showComment=1229298960000#c706927187708954230" title="comment permalink"> 6:56 PM</a></span></dd></dl>Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-46739157802927113322008-12-09T08:57:00.005-05:002008-12-09T09:19:02.326-05:00Exciting Christmas Eve PlansIf you remember, last year's Christmas Eve service was our best attended ever. It was really exciting to see so many new faces join us for that special evening. Our members made a concerted effort to invite their family, friends and neighbors - and we just left the outcome up to God. It was incredible.<br /><br />This year are striving to make our Christmas Eve services available to more and more people. Since so many people have family obligations or travel in the evening on Christmas Eve, we are going to offer an additional Christmas Eve service at 4PM this year. Thats right...two Christmas Eve services...one at <span style="font-weight: bold;">4PM</span> and one at <span style="font-weight: bold;">7PM</span>. Our worship team is excited. Sean and I are stoked. We can't wait to see what God will do. The two services will be identical, except that our Children's Handbell Choir will perform at the 7PM service only. Each service will last one hour.<br /><br />How can you help make our Christmas Eve services a blessing?<br /><ul><li>Make attending one of our Christmas Eve services a priority. If you really feel crazy, attend both so you can greet our guests. We promise it will be a blessing for your family.</li><li>Invite everyone you know to join you for this special event.</li><li>If you would like to participate in one of the services by reading scripture, please contact David and Juliana Smith.</li><li>Pray that God will move in SUPER ways, as we take care of the NATURAL.</li></ul>Can't wait to worship with you on Christmas Eve.<br />BrentBrenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-65376535177144116622008-12-04T08:27:00.002-05:002008-12-04T08:28:27.226-05:00BORN IDENTITY - Christmas Series<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhM-qSnpooPKsRZ-M5lqXF18EixIJmqBmuQJmTcXiYEVt8kIGkRR-PNcumkUQpZYs8o6Njo3An-pmG0GRWZhCdY-VQPSoE9yexj57RS434gEiAHgELagRZkhoYpSmTRW3yqBsE03zm10Qg/s1600-h/bornidentitylogo+copy.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhM-qSnpooPKsRZ-M5lqXF18EixIJmqBmuQJmTcXiYEVt8kIGkRR-PNcumkUQpZYs8o6Njo3An-pmG0GRWZhCdY-VQPSoE9yexj57RS434gEiAHgELagRZkhoYpSmTRW3yqBsE03zm10Qg/s400/bornidentitylogo+copy.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5275926231440126674" border="0" /></a>Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-43175426684669473492008-11-20T09:45:00.003-05:002008-11-20T09:48:13.949-05:00Some Evangelism Humor<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmuhZ7gw-jlAULQ-vnO6uCgVku3jUJ1z8hlgK_QoOQ5iYTbt7OoZIBEBaXu9peEug2r8RaSxaKwUXQzv2TAIMIQ7l5dFVFotMSBPVi_JGq7mXrSO_jft4RMh3nJzsik-ZfSuygpgZi4cE/s1600-h/ejection+seat.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 380px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmuhZ7gw-jlAULQ-vnO6uCgVku3jUJ1z8hlgK_QoOQ5iYTbt7OoZIBEBaXu9peEug2r8RaSxaKwUXQzv2TAIMIQ7l5dFVFotMSBPVi_JGq7mXrSO_jft4RMh3nJzsik-ZfSuygpgZi4cE/s400/ejection+seat.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5270751085374559842" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOr1dMNEiVvQVrZGMNwD7mxNvHVaSr6-_ZH-L1lUjxpgdmi3UEmoI6P3qC97U0OkohICprgDVwGNvBfLuyCrKhER_VbI86bbALtiI8HNc4sITx7VkTfeUwItEi2z-RkWEEPtbhCagEKNA/s1600-h/temps.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 331px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOr1dMNEiVvQVrZGMNwD7mxNvHVaSr6-_ZH-L1lUjxpgdmi3UEmoI6P3qC97U0OkohICprgDVwGNvBfLuyCrKhER_VbI86bbALtiI8HNc4sITx7VkTfeUwItEi2z-RkWEEPtbhCagEKNA/s400/temps.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5270751157565439570" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh13Y0pw-dpiL5sOp_OWz6DVzkwkzXdRqaebVfX6WcuOLs0ruP3zO7ZmoJ8oPfObOfpZqIUemaJExfSIss5jyl3P-QSoL-boTPtdhTMV4PmT2XSSECwtiRoJI6Cevf_S-G0C2OisM98pxQ/s1600-h/rigid.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 341px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh13Y0pw-dpiL5sOp_OWz6DVzkwkzXdRqaebVfX6WcuOLs0ruP3zO7ZmoJ8oPfObOfpZqIUemaJExfSIss5jyl3P-QSoL-boTPtdhTMV4PmT2XSSECwtiRoJI6Cevf_S-G0C2OisM98pxQ/s400/rigid.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5270751332217248482" border="0" /></a>Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-21121495964104980552008-11-19T09:32:00.007-05:002008-11-19T11:37:38.022-05:00Being an Answer to Prayer!<p>From Time Magazine, <span class="date">Monday, Aug. 09, 1971</span></p><p><span style="font-style: italic;">"There are few human dramas quite as compelling as the search for a lost child. When 9-year-old Kevin Dye wandered away from a picnic on rugged Casper Mountain in east central Wyoming, there was an extra edge of urgency and fear for his survival: Kevin is brain damaged and requires constant medication to prevent epileptic seizures. </span></p>Have you ever lost a child (when you weren't trying to)? Maybe in a grocery store? At the park? In the mall? You just turned away for a moment and they were gone. Do you remember the emotions? Your mind starts reeling. Something <span style="font-style: italic;">immediately </span>starts churning and pulling in the pit of your stomach - and only intensifies as the search continues. The longer the search the more raw your emotions become. Any help you can find...anyone willing to join you in the search is a welcome partner. Remember how you felt as you read the following story from Jesus' life.<br /><p> <span style="font-style: italic;" lang="en-us">Jesus went through all the towns and villages, teaching in their synagogues, preaching the good news of the kingdom and healing every disease and sickness. When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.Then he said to his disciples, “The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field.”</span> Matthew 9:35-38</p><p>When Jesus saw the crowds he had compassion on them. The word "compassion" is an anatomical word. It referred to the part of the anatomy between the navel and the groin. It became a word used to describe the <span style="font-style: italic;">churning and pulling you feel in the pit of your stomach</span> when you are <span style="font-style: italic;">deeply moved</span> by what you are seeing or experiencing. It's the same feeling you had when you lost your child. That's what the word "compassion" means.</p><p>Jesus saw people who were broken by life, struggling to get by, far from God and in the dark spiritually and it tore him up inside. Moved, as a parent during a long search, he pleads with His followers to pray that God would send more searchers - because there aren't many. There aren't many people moved by the lostness of others. Not many who lose sleep because others are far from God. There aren't many who are willing to set aside their own comfort in order to bring them aid or bring them home.</p>The article continues:<span style="font-style: italic;"> </span><span style="font-style: italic;">More than 3,000 volunteers searched for eleven days until he was found—dehydrated and 25 Ibs. lighter than when his ordeal began, but otherwise in excellent condition. </span><span style="font-style: italic;">Kevin's vulnerability provoked special reactions to his plight. Volunteers from as far away as Philadelphia and East St. Louis came to help in the search; the National Guard was called in to trek through the dense forest at night with infrared spotting devices. The owners of a restaurant on Casper Mountain turned their establishment over to the searchers for use as a headquarters. Residents of the area brought food and coffee to the volunteers, who spent wearying hours in the mountain wilderness."</span><p> </p> Kevin's vulnerability moved people to action. These searchers, many of whom were not God-followers, were moved to action by the same impulse that moved Jesus. Compassion for the vulnerable.<br /><br />One truth about being in church is that it often distances us from lost people. Studies show that the longer a person is a Christian, the fewer non-Christian people they have in their lives. Isn't that ironic. Isn't that exactly the opposite of what Jesus asked us to pray for? Shouldn't it be the other way around? Jesus had people far from God around Him <span style="font-style: italic;">all the time</span>. He said: "There are lost people everywhere" (i.e., the harvest is plentiful). He had so many around him that He often didn't have time to eat or rest. It just seems odd that the longer we're in church the fewer of those folks we have in our lives. Could it be that doing church and following Jesus are two very different approaches to life?<br /><p>At <span style="font-style: italic;">Community</span>, we don't want to just be "doing church." We are committed to following Jesus so closely that our lives are changing to be like His. We want to be an answer to Jesus' prayer for more workers. It is interesting that after Jesus calls His followers to pray for more workers, <span style="font-style: italic;">He sends them out</span> to minister to the very people that were on His heart (Matthew 10:1, 5). They were the answer to that prayer. Will we be?<br /></p><p>The hard truth is this: <span style="font-style: italic;">If we do not have people in our lives who are far from God...we are not as close to God as we think.</span><br /></p>Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-13080171036693298742008-11-18T11:17:00.005-05:002008-11-18T11:53:14.806-05:00The Heart of Jesus<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMBwOviE0mBhXlDY2KBmeRYR1YEuuEGj_e2Tu26T3aK2-Fr9JDi1sl7iR5k7OTxL76oXh_YnnMKrBC9MgLJzRumzcAdz1YDnuKYRf9rVOoxDFI-wQEzxizPYoGvLNwin22c6CgQc7Fzlc/s1600-h/26702.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 368px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMBwOviE0mBhXlDY2KBmeRYR1YEuuEGj_e2Tu26T3aK2-Fr9JDi1sl7iR5k7OTxL76oXh_YnnMKrBC9MgLJzRumzcAdz1YDnuKYRf9rVOoxDFI-wQEzxizPYoGvLNwin22c6CgQc7Fzlc/s400/26702.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5270032469397326210" border="0" /></a> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Last night we had an incredible leaders meeting. We spent some time talking about our vision to be an externally-focused church. It concerned some leaders that they have heard statements from some members like: “I don’t think I want our church to grow, I don’t know everyone now”; or “why make all these changes to reach new people, we liked things the way they were;” or “what makes reaching new people more important than taking care of those we already have?” or “We were here first. This is our church.” These sentiments are by no means wide-spread but they are difficult to hear none-the-less. One leader observed that these sentiments are exactly what Sean talked about Sunday morning. Even in the church there is a temptation to focus on ourselves to the exclusion of the well-being (or salvation) of others.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:100%;">All this begs the question: why would a church choose to focus on outsiders? Why even bother with those outside our walls at all? My answer is: because of God’s heart. It has always been my understanding that we are striving to reflect the heart of Jesus, regardless of the inconvenience or cost. We’ve said that <i style="">spiritual maturity is having the things that matter to God matter to us</i>. It is interesting to think about who was on Jesus’ mind during His last hours on this earth. Where was His focus?</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>In John 17 Jesus prayed for His disciples, as well as all those who would come to believe in Him through their words (John 17:20-23). That’s US. He prayed that His people would be unified. <i style="">But that unity was not an end in itself</i>. He wanted us to be unified “<i style="">so that the world might believe.</i>” Outsiders would be making decisions about a relationship with God based on how they saw His people treating one another. Jesus’ gaze was set on outsiders and he wanted to make sure that our behavior drew them to Him and didn’t push them away.</span></p> <p style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p>At the end of the Book of Matthew there is a passage we call the Great Commission. It is the climax of Matthew’s Gospel. In that passage Jesus says: <i style="">“All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore <u>go</u> and <u>make</u> disciples of all nations, <u>baptizing</u> them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and <u>teaching</u> them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”</i> I have underlined the Greek verbs in this passage: go, make, baptize and teach. Which do you think is the primary verb in that sentence? It is the word “make.” The other verbs describe how we make disciples. We go find them, we baptize them and we teach them. Our primary mission is to <i style="">make disciples of all nations</i>. As long as there is one person in our neighborhood or in a remote corner of the globe that does not know Jesus, our work is not done. We, like the Shepherd, would leave the ninety-nine to find the one lost sheep (Luke 15). Jesus’ focus was on those who were lost and dying without Him. His aim was to reach people and mature them to the point that they would go bring more and more people to God.<o:p></o:p></span></p><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:100%;" >In Acts 1:8-9 Jesus gives his disciples their marching orders. These words represent His last words to His followers. He says: <i style="">You will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my <u>witnesses</u> in <st1:city st="on">Jerusalem</st1:city>, and in all Judea and <st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on">Samaria</st1:place></st1:city>, and to the ends of the earth.” After he said this, he was taken up before their very eyes, and a cloud hid him from their sight.</i> The word “witnesses” is the word “martus” a word from which we get our English word “martyr.” It is a missionary word. It speaks of one who can and will proclaim Jesus to those who do not know Him, even at the risk of their own lives. Jesus’ charge to his disciples was that they be witnesses to outsiders from here to the ends of the earth.<o:p></o:p></span> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:100%;">When the early church kept this focus it did well. This small band of disciples, through their witnessing, went from 120 to 3,120 literally overnight. I doubt they were concerned that they didn’t know everyone. It was exciting. They were on the front lines of God's work. People were being added to their number daily and the church very quickly grew to 5,000 men (not counting women and children). Conservative estimates are that within one year of Jesus’ final words, the number of His followers had grown from 120 to 20,000 people. And that was just the beginning.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:100%;">It was when church members began to focus on themselves that the problems began. Paul's letter to the church in Corinth was written to a congregation that had lost its outward focus. That church had incredible problems. <i style="">When churches turn inward they begin to fuss, fragment and die</i>. We will have an eternity to praise our God and bask in the glow of our relationship with Him. What must matter to us now is bringing as many people with us as possible.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:100%;">I have a few questions. Which do you think Jesus cares more about: me getting to worship in a style I like on Sunday morning or His church intentionally reaching out to those who will go to hell without Him? Is He more interested in me “knowing everyone” or with His church bringing more and more people to hear His life-changing Word? Is He more interested in my comfort or another person’s salvation? </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:100%;">The apostle Paul made it his mission to “win as many as possible.” When you hear me talk about being “on mission” that is what I mean. The leaders of our church from our elders, to our staff, to our ministry leaders have come together around this calling. We want the things that matter most to Jesus to matter most to us. As parents, it makes us proud when our children mature to the point that they put the needs of others ahead of their own. We believe God shares this emotion.</span></p><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:100%;" >As leaders we face many difficult decisions. We lead a diverse church. It is impossible to please everyone. In our discussions we have identified two over-riding choices. We can either be <i style="">member-driven</i> or <i style="">mission-driven</i>. Member-driven churches work hard to keep all of their members happy. They focus on those they already have. They don’t rock the boat or introduce change. Their decisions are driven by what would make their members comfortable and happy. Most member-driven churches are withering and dying. The comfort of our members is too small a thing to dedicate our lives to. Leaders of mission-driven churches ask their members to join them in reaching the world for Jesus. They acknowledge the work will be hard. It will require sacrifice. Everybody will be uncomfortable. Yet, these leaders know that the mission of God drove Jesus’ life and it must drive ours as well. </span> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:100%;">I shared some of this article with Sean this morning. He shared a story of a man who came and spoke at their chapel service at <st1:place st="on"><st1:placename st="on">Lincoln</st1:placename> <st1:placename st="on">Christian</st1:placename> <st1:placename st="on">College</st1:placename></st1:place>. After he preached one Sunday a woman came to him and said: “I just don’t think I want this church to grow any larger. I can’t go to a church that gets so big that I won’t know everybody’s name. I just don’t want to attend a church like that.” The old preacher said: “Ok, I understand, but I need you to help me with something.” That lady looked puzzled, but said: “OK, what?” He continued: “I need you to help me make a sign to put in front of our church for those who are passing by; a sign that says ‘we don’t give a rip if you are going to hell, there’s no room for you here.’” Ouch!<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:100%;">We long to reflect the heart of Jesus. Our vision is to be a mission-driven church. As leaders we pray that you will join us in the most difficult, exhilarating enterprise on the planet.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Bill Easum writes: “God will give you everything you ever need and more, if you will just make it about His kingdom and not about you!”</span></p>Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-36687404254851322012008-11-05T11:41:00.000-05:002008-11-05T11:43:06.216-05:00Slowed Economy - Sean<p class="MsoNormal">Things happen in our lives that are totally out of our control and when they do it can be scary.<span style=""> </span>We need to know that it’s necessary for us to experience this so that we can realize that <b style=""><i style="">we are not in control</i></b>.<span style=""> </span>I’ve been thinking about this a lot more lately because of the slowing state of our economy.<span style=""> </span>People around the country have been losing jobs left and right and it has hit home right here in our community.<span style=""> </span>I’ve been getting emails with prayer requests that seem to have a nervous tone about them because jobs are in jeopardy and the realization has set in that this is out of our control.<span style=""> </span><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal"> In my thinking about this stuff, randomly something hit me as a possibility.<span style=""> </span>What if God Himself, has slowed down our economy on purpose?<span style=""> </span>Maybe, it’s His way of telling us to stop chasing the dream of <b style=""><i style="">more</i></b>.<span style=""> </span>Ever since I have become a Christian I have heard messages about busyness, and this idea that we can’t be too busy to follow Jesus., and as time has gone on that message seems to be getting louder and louder.<span style=""> </span><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal"> I have personally experienced the slowing of the economy myself.<span style=""> </span>About a year ago I got laid off from my job as a Community Life Minister.<span style=""> </span>It was one of the toughest times in my life.<span style=""> </span>Mentally I was spent everyday.<span style=""> </span>Doing ordinary tasks seemed to become impossible to me.<span style=""> </span>The days felt oddly short, yet filled with eternal boredom.<span style=""> </span>I spent nine months unemployed and it financially wrecked me, but spiritually it brought me to places unknown.<span style=""> </span>I experienced what it means that God alone holds us in His hands.<span style=""> </span>I just want to share this message<b style="">:<span style=""> </span>it was worth the exchange!<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></b></p>Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-6085562530466111112008-11-03T08:48:00.008-05:002008-11-03T10:02:50.015-05:00The Polar Opposite of Passion<span style="font-size:100%;">Yesterday we talked about being passionate warriors for God. God placed us in our roles and we are called to fulfill our God-given assignments. The thing that most often gets in my way is... drum roll please... complacency.<br /><br />To be complacent means to be <span style="font-style: italic;">"</span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">contented </span>to a fault, <span style="font-style: italic;">self satisfied</span>, especially when <span style="font-style: italic;">unaware </span>of impending danger.</span><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p></o:p></span>" The key words in this definition are contented, self-satisfied and unaware. Being complacent is being so proud of our own accomplishments, so satisfied with our life-situation that we are content to just enjoy the fruits of our labors. Complacent warriors aren't engaged in a battle - they view all of significant battles as being in the past - and now are content to enjoy the spoils of their own labor.<br /><br />The story we studied yesterday began this way: "I Nebuchadnezzar, was at home in my palace <span style="font-style: italic;">contented and prosperous" </span>(Dan. 4:4). What he had forgotten - which brought about the impending danger was that - leadership is a stewardship, it was temporary, and he was accountable.<br /><br />As warriors for the cause of Christ, we don't get to just prop our feet up and enjoy the fruits of "our labor." Our war is on-going and battles must be fought every single day, so as long as we have breath we continue to fight. The greatest threat to our involvement God's work in this world is complacency.<br /><br /></span><span style="font-size:11;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Leaders don't wait for a crisis to answer the call. A leader doesn't wait for his wife to say she is leaving before getting concerned about his marriage. A leader does not wait for his son to develop and addiction before being concerned about the character of his friends. A real leader doesn't wait for a financial crisis at church to begin to reflect on where the resources God has poured into his life are really going. Leaders live their leadership every day, in light of God's purposes, because they know God has placed them in their roles, for this specific time, and they are accountable to Him.</span></span><br /><span style="font-size:11;"><o:p></o:p></span><br /><b style=""><i><span style="background: yellow none repeat scroll 0% 50%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;font-size:11;" ></span></i></b><b style=""><span style="background: yellow none repeat scroll 0% 50%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;font-size:11;" ><o:p></o:p></span></b>Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-17771031360142725152008-10-27T10:21:00.001-04:002008-10-27T10:27:19.550-04:0024-Hour Prayer Focus<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">We had a great time in our LIFE Group last night. One outcome was the proposal that our group invite our church family into a <b><span style="font-weight: bold;">24-Hour prayer focus</span></b> this coming weekend. With a critical <u>election</u> before us next Tuesday, <u>families</u> impacted by the economic downturn, <u>God’s mission</u> before us – we must move forward together under God’s direction and in His power. What a way to start a new month of service. Here is our proposal.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">Some Questions about our 24-Hour Prayer Focus.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">Who: </span></span></b><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">Anyone and everyone who wants to participate, individuals, couples, families or small groups.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">What: </span></span></b><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">A<b><span style="font-weight: bold;"> </span></b>24-hour chain of unbroken prayer<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">When: </span></span></b><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">10:00 AM Saturday till 10:00 AM Sunday.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">How: </span></span></b><u><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">Sign up for a <i><span style="font-style: italic;">½ hour</span></i> or <i><span style="font-style: italic;">hour</span></i> time-slot</span></span></u><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;"> and commit to pray for those items mentioned above – and others things that are on your heart. (we’ll provide a list to help guide your thoughts). <i><span style="font-style: italic;">We should easily be able to fill up all of the time slots.</span></i> This will provide a 24-hour unbroken chain of prayer from our church family. <b><span style="font-weight: bold;">Michele Keeton will be doing signups on Wednesday </span></b>evening <b><span style="font-weight: bold;">or</span></b> you can also <b><span style="font-weight: bold;">sign up by emailing Michele</span></b> at <a title="mailto:bluekeeton@comcast.net" href="mailto:bluekeeton@comcast.net">bluekeeton@comcast.net</a>. <o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">Where:</span></span></b><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;"> Wherever you are. You don’t need to come to our campus to pray. Spend time in focused prayer wherever you happen to be.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;"><o:p></o:p>Please join us…<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">Keeton’s LIFE Group<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-79870933906901003422008-10-08T11:15:00.001-04:002008-10-08T11:18:48.676-04:00Where Have All The Men Gone?<p class="MsoNormal">This week we begin a message series that focuses on men…and we’ve strategically placed our Men’s Retreat in the middle of this series. I know this may seem a little unfair for our women. But I hope you’ll agree that one of the greatest gifts we can give the women of our church is to help the men in their lives become the men God is calling them to be. If you look around, you have to admit, the church has not been very helpful in this process.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">As part of my prep for the series I’m reading a book titled: “<i style="">Why Men Hate Going To Church</i>.” For a supposedly <i style="">male-dominated</i> institution, the statistics are staggering.</p><ul><li><!--[if !supportLists]--><span class="txtfieldmatter"><span style="font-family: Wingdings;"><span style=""><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"></span></span></span></span><span class="txtfieldmatter">The typical <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">U.S.</st1:place></st1:country-region> congregation draws an adult crowd that’s 61% female, 39% male. This gender gap shows up in all age categories.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li><!--[if !supportLists]--><span class="txtfieldmatter"><span style="font-family: Wingdings;"><span style=""><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"></span></span></span></span><span class="txtfieldmatter">On any given Sunday there are 13 million more adult women than men in <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">America</st1:place></st1:country-region>’s churches.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li><!--[if !supportLists]--><span class="txtfieldmatter"><span style="font-family: Wingdings;"><span style=""><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"></span></span></span></span><span class="txtfieldmatter">This Sunday almost 25 percent of married, churchgoing women will worship without their husbands.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Wingdings;"><span style=""><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"></span></span></span><span class="txtfieldmatter">Midweek activities often draw 70 to 80 percent female participants.</span></li><li><!--[if !supportLists]--><span class="txtfieldmatter"><span style="font-family: Wingdings;"><span style=""><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"></span></span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span class="txtfieldmatter">The majority of church employees are women (except for ordained clergy, who are overwhelmingly male).<o:p></o:p></span></li><li><!--[if !supportLists]--><span class="txtfieldmatter"><span style="font-family: Wingdings;"><span style=""><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"></span></span></span></span><span class="txtfieldmatter">Over 70 percent of the boys who are being raised in church will abandon it during their teens and twenties. Many of these boys will never return.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li><!--[if !supportLists]--><span class="txtfieldmatter"><span style="font-family: Wingdings;"><span style=""><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"></span></span></span></span><span class="txtfieldmatter">More than 90 percent of American men believe in God, and five out of six call themselves Christians. But only two out of six attend church on a given Sunday. The average man accepts the reality of Jesus Christ, but fails to see any value in going to church.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li><!--[if !supportLists]--><span class="txtfieldmatter"><span style="font-family: Wingdings;"><span style=""><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"></span></span></span></span><span class="txtfieldmatter">Churches overseas report gender gaps of up to 9 women for every adult man in attendance.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li><!--[if !supportLists]--><span class="txtfieldmatter"><span style="font-family: Wingdings;"><span style=""><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"></span></span></span></span><span class="txtfieldmatter">Christian universities are becoming convents. The typical Christian college in the <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">U.S.</st1:place></st1:country-region> enrolls 2 women for every 1 man.<o:p></o:p></span></li><li><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Wingdings;"><span style=""><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"></span></span></span><span class="txtfieldmatter">Fewer than 10% of <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">U.S.</st1:place></st1:country-region> churches are able to establish or maintain a vibrant men’s ministry.</span><o:p></o:p></li></ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 6pt;">The author concludes that today's church has feminized Jesus and expects attenders to participate in intimate, nurturing behavior including things like singing “love songs” to Jesus, hand-holding, sharing feelings, while inviting everyone to have a “personal relationship” with the Savior. Many men feel uncomfortable in such an environment and choose not to go. In fact, nearly every man in <st1:place st="on"><st1:country-region st="on">America</st1:country-region></st1:place> has experienced church at some point in his life, yet <i style="">two-thirds </i>of them do not currently feel it worthy of two hours of their time on a Sunday morning. Something is tragically wrong.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 6pt;">You can draw two different conclusions to this data.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 6pt 72pt; text-indent: -18pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol;"><span style="">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span></span><!--[endif]-->You could conclude that men are inherently unspiritual. It’s easy to blame the men. Yet, almost every other religion (Buddhist, Hindu, Muslim) reverse the men/women percentages mentioned above.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 6pt 72pt; text-indent: -18pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol;"><span style="">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span></span><!--[endif]-->You could conclude that most of our churches have become environments that are not very inviting to men. Therefore, they are choosing to express their spirituality in other ways and in other places.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 6pt;">Why does this matter? At a recent seminar our leaders attended together, the speaker shared these statistics: If a child attends church first, 17% of the time the parents will follow; if a woman attends church first, 33% of the time the family will follow; if a man attends church first, 93% of the time the family will follow.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">We must be intentional about “making room” for men in our churches and be intentional about inviting them to be the “real men” that God is calling them to be.</p>Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-10165857435384467512008-09-30T14:09:00.005-04:002008-09-30T14:40:40.457-04:00Becoming A Sticky Church<span style=";font-family:arial;font-size:100%;" ><span style="font-size:11;"></span></span>On Sunday a newcomer engaged me following our worship. She spoke of her gratitude for <i>Community</i> and I said: “I’m really glad you found us.” With tears in her eyes, she replied: “We didn’t <i>find</i> you – God <i>led</i> us here. From the first time I walked into this building, <i>I knew we were home</i>.” <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 6pt;">God is creating a church that people love to come to. But, <i style="">what if</i>, rather than just creating a church that people love to come to - <i>what if we also created a church that people refuse to leave</i>."</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 6pt;">For years, the primary focus in many churches has been on the “front door”—people coming into the church. And while such an emphasis <i style="">remains the Great Commission priority</i>, our leaders are equally concerned with integrating newcomers into the life of the church. <span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="bodytext" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 6pt;">Researchers have discovered four major factors that are at work when churches close the back door effectively. If all four are in play, the back door closed tight. But any one of these factors still contributes to more effective assimilation.</p> <p class="bodytext" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 6pt;"><b style="">1. High Expectations <o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="bodytext" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 6pt;">The <st1:place st="on"><st1:placename st="on">American</st1:placename> <st1:placetype st="on">Church</st1:placetype></st1:place> went through a period of more than 10 years when churches significantly lowered their expectations of members and attendees. The result was an exodus of people from the church. “Why would I want to be a part of something that expects nothing of me?” a former active church member told a research team. People want to be challenged to invest their lives in something that matters. We must establish clear expectations of service, stewardship and attendance, etc. We need people invested in the most important mission on this planet. </p> <p class="bodytext" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 6pt;"><b>2. Small Groups</b><b style=""><span style="font-size:18;"><o:p></o:p></span></b></p> <p class="bodytext" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 6pt;">Second, churches that close the back door seek to get as many of their members as possible into small groups. Connections and life-change happens best in small groups. If you are only a Sunday attender, let me challenge you to be involved at a deeper level in our spiritual family.<span style=""> </span>You will be blessed. You can find a list of our small groups on our website at <a href="http://www.heart4communtiy.org/">www.heart4communtiy.org</a>. It is in our small groups that we begin “doing life together.”</p> <p class="bodytext" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 6pt;"><b style="">3. Ministry Involvement <o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="bodytext" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 6pt;">The third key component is ministry involvement. The earlier a new member or attendee can get involved in a church’s ministries, the higher the likelihood of effective assimilation. This is a critical time-frame that our ministry leaders monitor closely. Churches that close the back door have a clear plan to get people involved and doing ministry as quickly as possible. We currently have a high guest-retention rate – one reason is that newcomers get involved in serving very quickly. Incidentally, the newcomer I mentioned at the beginning of this article - signed up to serve the second Sunday she and her husband attended.<br /></p> <p class="bodytext" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 6pt;"><b style="">4. Relationship Connections <o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="bodytext" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 6pt;">Finally, the more new members connect with longer-term members, the greater the opportunity for assimilation. In an interesting twist in the research, they found that most of these relationships developed <i style="">before</i> the new member ever came to the church. In other words, <u>members were intentionally developing relationships with people outside the walls of the church</u>. <u>They invited them to church after the relationship had been established</u>. <u><o:p></o:p></u></p> <p class="bodytext" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 6pt;">You’ll have to judge how we are doing in each of these areas. One thing I would ask is that you help make <i style="">Community</i> a “sticky church.” <o:p></o:p></p> <span style=";font-family:times new roman;font-size:100%;" ><br /><span style="font-size:11;"></span></span>Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-636628411227356469.post-18863593873670262322008-09-29T13:57:00.000-04:002008-09-29T13:58:03.876-04:00Countering Our American Culture<p class="MsoNormal">In college I had a really good friend named Legesse.<span style=""> </span>He was from <st1:country-region st="on">Ethiopia</st1:country-region>, and had actually spent a lot of time in the country of <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">Yemen</st1:place></st1:country-region>.<span style=""> </span>When he moved here to <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">America</st1:place></st1:country-region> and eventually to college with me he obviously brought with him some foreign mannerisms.<span style=""> </span>For example, in <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">America</st1:place></st1:country-region>, if there is open seating at a movie or anywhere, and you are going with a friend, when you sit down you will naturally leave an empty seat or two between you.<span style=""> </span>It’s part of our American culture. <span style=""> </span>We are all about space.<span style=""> </span>Legesse didn’t have that.<span style=""> </span>If I sat down with him in class or at a movie or a conference he would sit right next to me and it felt like almost right on top of me!<span style=""> </span>At first I was very uncomfortable.<span style=""> </span>I didn’t like not having personal space.<span style=""> </span>But after a while it didn’t bother me.<span style=""> </span>And I started to see this lack of personal space as a good thing because literally and figuratively I allowed people to get closer to me.<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>Why do I bring this story up?<span style=""> </span>Well, there are times to embrace culture and times we need to counter our culture.<span style=""> </span>I noticed we are encountering something phenomenal here at CCC.<span style=""> </span>We are experiencing <i style="">growth</i>.<span style=""> </span>Not just in maturity (although I think we are), but we are also experiencing God bringing us more people, and with this awesome phenomenon comes some hiccups that we have to deal with.<span style=""> </span>This past Sunday for the first time I sat in the back row at CCC.<span style=""> </span>I noticed that in front of me there were a lot of empty spaces, empty chairs, even some rows that were barren.<span style=""> </span>I realized that just like in high school on the bus everyone seems to cling to the back!<span style=""> </span>I understand Brent smells a little, but come on people!<span style=""> </span>No, but hear me out on this.<span style=""> </span>Imagine you are a new person coming to Community for the first time.<span style=""> </span>You get there but you are a little late.<span style=""> </span>As you quietly open the doors to where people are meeting you scan the crowd and see that there are no seats open in the back row.<span style=""> </span>You now have two choices: <i style="">1.<span style=""> </span>Make the walk of shame – </i>you have to walk past everyone as they watch you.<span style=""> </span>Find a seat right up front as you crawl over people at the end of the isles, and you have to risk someone publically embarrassing you.<span style=""> </span>Or, <i style="">2.<span style=""> </span>You just leave.</i><span style=""> </span>If you were new, which would you choose, and be honest?<span style=""> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">I don’t want people to miss out on an opportunity to possibly meet God for the first time because we were sitting in the back to have our own space.<span style=""> </span>That’s not what we as a church are all about.<span style=""> </span>I just want to challenge all of us, myself included, to sit closer to the front and leave the back open.<span style=""> </span>To sit next to someone instead of leaving gaps in the seats.<span style=""> </span>To not just nab the aisle seat because you like the aisle.<span style=""> </span>Let’s consider others even when it comes to where to sit.<span style=""> </span>Let’s counter our American culture.<span style=""> </span></p>Brenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03665044760719241868noreply@blogger.com1